In my experience of more then 40 years of life, I encounter few or more backstabber along the way. At first, I tried to keep a distance from such people to keep my self a victim of false story. But now, I just don't paid any attention to those people because I know who I am and you can't avoid them because they are every way. Most of the time I listen to this false story, I'll laugh at it and tell the one who told me, "Who tell you such story, he must be misunderstood."
What is a backstabber?
A backstabber is the person who act as your friend, laugh and smile with you, shake your hand and give you a hug, and like any other friends and relatives you know; But when you're not watching, he or she make false story out of you, exaggerate the story and make you a bad person. This kind of people envy you and their strategy is taking you out of your comfort and destroying your good name. They will crush you in any way they can, even try to kill you maybe.
How do you handle such people?
If you found out there is a backstabber in your circle and connection, you can follow my tips. I learn this from experience of mine and friends. I also have a counter backstabber technique which backfire the backstabber which I included below.
Be a good person as you can be. When you do all things good, there's no space for backstabber to tell bad story about you. They can only try to fabricate story to make you bad. If they do, ignore such story and keep your self happy. The more happier you are, the more annoyed the backstabber be. Ignore their story and maintain your normal life. You don't want to start a war. At this rate, they are the good guy and you with their fabricated story about you are not good nor bad.
Watch your mouth when you talk. There are only one room for a backstabber in your life, it's either them or you. If you start talking bad of other people, people won't like you and they will switch side immediately. All your anger must be keep to your self. It's not the right time to unleash your angry tiger. You must think before you talk or otherwise your are not better than the backstabber it self.
It is important to be your self and try to improve in any way you can. You don't want this silly matters to run in a long run because this backstabbing business is not things that can gain profit but a lot more expenses in life. The more lies out there will make life more miserable. The backstabber will have to live their life with tons of lies they created and sooner or later, they will lost track of their lies any the truth shall prevail. So, don't be a backstabber.
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